Pssst…Valentine’s Day is in a couple of weeks. In our electronic age, you may consider handwritten notes old-fashioned and outdated. But that’s the beauty of them. Giving a heartfelt note is something completely different and unexpected.
You can tell your loved ones (significant others, parents, children, grandparents, friends) how much you care about them in three steps that fit easily into your schedule. Reprinted from February 2009 newsletter
Happy Writing!
Step One
The first week of February:
- Set aside at least 15 – 20 minutes of uninterrupted time. Schedule more time during the week if needed.
- Jot down the names of your loved ones.
- For each person on your list, quickly write down one or two of their favorite traits, habits or quirks. That includes a wacky sense of humor, making your favorite meal when you’re feeling down, being a good listener, or showing kindness to others.
Step Two
Over the weekend:
- Buy a card for each person, or buy enough blank notecards for everyone on your list.
Step Three
The second week of February:
Set aside at least half an hour of uninterrupted time. For each bullet point below, use as many sentences as you need to express yourself fully. This is your note, so develop it as you like. Combine sentences, add traits, reminisce — The choice is yours.
Begin with Dear [insert name],
- Describe what you like about that trait(s) or action(s).
> I love hearing you laugh when we watch television together.
> My favorite times are when we get into great conversations while we’re cooking dinner.
> No matter how busy you are, I appreciate the way you always take time to listen to me.
- Tell them how the trait/action makes you feel.
> I feel so safe when you hug me after a rough day at work.
> My heart feels so full when I watch you pray with my grandmother at the nursing home.
> I feel so flattered when you brag about me to your father.
- Offer a thank you or encouragement to your loved one.
> Thank you for loving me as you do.
> I am blessed to have you in my life.
> How did I get so lucky to have a daughter like you?
Finally, close your message with “Be My Valentine” or “I Love You” or whatever you’re comfortable with…then sign your name.
That’s it! You’ve just given your loved one the most personal gift ever: A message tailored especially for him or her.
Never underestimate the power of simplicity. Consider offering your note with a single rose.
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